I was nervous I'd never had a man massage me before. "So I went to a high-end spa for a massage, and the only person available was a guy. "I was going through a divorce and feeling like hell," said Alexa, a 30-year-old attorney. But if it's present, the possibilities are endless. I did afterward, people kept stopping me on the street to say, 'Oh my God, you're glowing.'"Ĭhemistry with your masseur is a key factor, and one that can't always be controlled.
He never actually touched my clitoris or vagina it was just all around the area. He started rubbing me on the pressure points around my hips.
My nipples got erect, so that must have sent him a signal. "At first you're on your stomach, so they're just massaging your back," said Trish, a 29-year-old marketing manager who frequents the Baths. An East Village fixture famous for its massive steam rooms and women-only days, it once drew celebrities from John Belushi to Frank Sinatra, and now attracts a cross-section of New Yorkers from Russian sexagenarians to downtown fashionistas. Occasionally, a spa's reputation for sensual goings-on will precede it, as with New York City's famed Russian & Turkish Baths on 10th Street. One thing led to another and he ended up finishing me off, which was great." He started slowly touching my thigh, then going higher, and it turned into a game of how far each of us would take it. "Initially kept it very clean, but I was really turned on and I let him know it by moaning and saying how good it felt. She first discovered erotic massage during an in-room rubdown at an upscale Miami hotel. Some masseuses will give a female happy ending massage. "It's all about giving the right signals," she says. The key, according to veterans like Amy, a 32-year-old model/actress who's had happy ending massages in two different states, is clear but subtle communication. The bottom line: Women like massages and woman like orgasms, so why shouldn't the two sometimes (literally) come hand in hand? (*Names have been changed to protect the less-than-innocent.) "Women are finally getting comfortable with the idea that it's OK to feel erotic in what's already a really erotic setting." "It's such a well-known thing for guys, and women are finally getting more comfortable asking for it," said Anna*, a self-described massage healer who has worked at several upscale spas and performed happy endings on female customers. RELATED: I Went Undercover To Explore The Secret Life Of Suburban Swingers
And with competition among spas getting ever more intense, customers are starting to demand more than just Enya and free herbal tea with their Shiatsu, according to massage therapists. Thanks for your interest in helping others in desperate need.Luckily, societal rules restricting female sexuality are dying as fast as "Sex and the City" slayed them, and it was only a matter of time before women embraced the notion that "quick releases" aren't just for men. HIV testing is not warranted.ĭonation information for The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation can be found on the foundation's Web site at From Europe you can use PayPal, credit cards, direct wire transfer, checks or cash for donations. Your HIV-acquisition risk from your rub-and-tug happy-ending massage is nonexistent. Can this also be done if you're living in Europe? I would love to donate. PS: I have read that we can donate to your organisation. I'm sorry for these questions but you would help me a lot with keeps on turning in my head. The fact that she touched my anus, is there any chance of transmitting HIV if the masseuse would have HIV?ĭo I need to test myself after having this massage? I'm also afraid that I could have been at risk for HIV if she would have touched the wonde with her hand and afterwards touched my penis?
I must admit that I'm feeling guilty of having this done. The wonde (spots) was dry, there was no blood and I didn't saw her touching her neck or rubbing her neck on my penis. However, in her neck she had some red spots because she burned herself on christmas-evening where she has been taken the medication for.